Have you ever felt stuck in life? The question of your self-worth starts to weigh down on you as your self-esteem starts to slowly decrease. ...
I will admit, there has been so many times in my life that I have felt stuck. Truth is, I have felt stuck most of my life and even up until a year ago I felt stuck! I didn't know who I was or what I wanted to do. My self-esteem and self-worth was at an ultimate low because I kept my head wrapped around the opinions of others and what they thought about me. I remember being Young and always being told to sit a little taller, be a little better, work a little harder, to go to college to become a doctor, or a lawyer because these options for sure gave me the opportunity to make six figures plus a year. I was being groomed and molded into someone whom everyone thought was right for my future. I deeply knew everyone wanted what was best for me, but no one ever asked about my dreams or visions. I become lost because I was so busy in trying to make everyone proud that I forgot about finding my true passions.
So now what?
Being stuck and living out someone else's dream was definitely a testing point in my life. I was MISERBALE! I was DEPRESSED! I was ANGRY! I became someone whom I couldn't even recognize. It was tough living out another person's dream, but without a doubt I finally got moving! I took on my own personal responsibility and got myself unstuck.
I began to choose courage, I took a leap of faith, and I ran with it. I began to truly search for my happiness and began to deeply and abundantly love myself.
Did you think the process of letting go of having acceptance was easy? No. I remember being in constant tears almost everyday after work due to the stress and anxieties I would have. I was broken because I wanted a different way out of life and those whom were closest to me didn't understand and rather choose to shut me out. There were so many times Ive questioned myself if I really did choose the right path, but every time I did there was a little voice in my head that kept me going. I couldn't deny it and I knew I was put on earth for a good purpose. I deeply knew all the pain I have felt, all the disapproval and rejection I got was going to only push me to be better. So with it all I kept going. Throughout my years of seeking myself, I don't blame anyone else for all the choices I've made thus far, I can truly say I've learned a lot.
I've learned how to humble myself, to not be so quick to judge someone and always be understanding to anyone who's going through some difficult times in life. We truly don't know what tomorrow may bring so we must learn to be kind.
Again, I'm not saying you need to experience any type of pain inorder to want to grow. But if you're experiencing some feelings of being stuck. What does it say? Do something about it! I truly believe that everything that is happening around you is a mirror reflection of how you feel and think. So if you want to be unstuck, think differently, change your mindset and truly believe that you have the power to create anything you want in life. Believe me when I say, your vibration to the universe speaks volume about your life. Nothing great comes out of being stuck and living in fear. Understand that life happens, we all get stuck, but it's about how you react to it. So everyday choose to get moving, to mold yourself for you and always remember this is your life and no one is here to save you except you.